Hello! I am
Julie McNeil
EXECUTIVE & PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT COACH
Today you are one step closer to a new you where you feel empowered and on a positive path to growth and well-being. As a Success Coach, my goal is to help you uncover your true potential and lead a life that is worth celebrating. While we can’t change difficult situations of the past, we can work together to better understand and resolve challenges in your life.
How To Come To Know Your True Power To Create Your Life
When you were younger, were you full of hope and positive expectations about the future?
Believing that adulthood would be a snap because as an adult you should have lived a long enough time to learn the important lessons. Then, you would know all the important things – how to have a successful career, how to be married and maintain a satisfying relationship (just like I dreamed of as a little girl), how to be a parent and respond appropriately to the needs of others and finally how to stay hopeful in the midst of adversity….
Instead, life got underway and you became more uncertain, less confident and more uneasy about things that seemed to be out of your control.
Looking back now, you realize that much of what you have been doing in your life and decisions that you are making are somewhat programed and based on what you think is expected of you.
Your relationships challenge you in unsatisfying ways.
It feels like your life is something that is happening to you and you frequently feel let down by it.
You frequently feel drained and lacking in energy and you’re noticing deterioration in your health.
While some things may be good in your life experience, you just can’t appreciate them.
You tend to notice a lot of what isn’t working but just don’t know how to change it.
And even worse, the nagging and uncontrollable feeling of a major void in your life.
It is unspoken but you can sense it.
Sound Familiar?
This was me for years.
But fast forward today and now, more than ever, I know that my life purpose is freedom, growth and joy. I understand now that my life should feel good, satisfying and be fun.
When I think about my perspective from the past, my life felt acceptable in some areas but not as a whole. I’m not sure exactly when it happened but eventually I begin to feel a void that I couldn’t explain. While some areas of my life seemed okay to me there were other areas that felt unfilled. I tried counting my blessing and other tactics that use to work for me, but they just didn’t seem to work anymore. It felt like I had forgotten something very important, but I just couldn’t remember what it was. I recall thinking maybe I just can’t have it all. To have it all wouldn’t be fair, I thought, but still, I felt awful. I believed it was reasonable that there should be some things lacking in my l life or some problem to deal will and struggle over. Often, I’d put on a good face around other people while deep down inside I felt empty and unfulfilled. I had prided myself in having it all together. Around other people, often I decided to fake it and say positive things to appear upbeat and positive when I wasn’t feeling it. I remember looking around at others and some of them seemed to have it all. I wondered what was different about what they were doing? I wondered if I deserved to have it all and if that was even possible for me.
For example, I noticed that if my career was going well my relationships might be suffering or the other way around. Overtime, I started to compare my success to what I felt was the measure of success for other people and that really felt bad to me.
I just couldn’t sort it all out to feel real satisfaction about my life.
My feelings became increasing over-whelming and finally I started seeking outside help.
My desire to find answers led me to a very insightful mentor and coach that helped me to discover some important things about myself. What I learned was that I’d been living my life completely out of balance with conflicting and limiting beliefs about myself and my life that weren’t serving me. The tricky part about this was that my beliefs were unconscious, yet, they had a significant impact on what I was experiencing in my life.
They were beliefs and stories that I had made up about why things were the way they were and about why I was
making decisions that I was making. Over time and with intention to develop better understanding about myself a
light bulb went off for me.
I began to discover that I was the only thing standing in my way of achieving satisfaction about my life. As I grew in my
own self-knowledge and self -empowerment I found greater clarity, confidence and things started to click into place for
me in magnificent ways.
First, I noticed a desire to go after my dreams and I was less fearful about the unknown and my abilities. I felt less constrained
and I noticed having greater insights into myself and the ability to trust my inner guidance about what is best for me.
I started to depend less on the opinions of other people as I grew in self-confidence and self-assuredness.
I felt more alive, more clear and stronger emotionally and even physically.
Today having achieved a feeling of wholeness allows me to move more freely in my life without fear of change and to expect and
receive the best outcomes. No longer do I feel confined by things outside of myself. If I ever do feel unsure I know it’s only temporary and
by applying what I know now I can make the shift I need to move forward.
As a coach and with every fiber of my being I want others to achieve balance and success in the life. My passion is to support and
assist people toward self-empowerment by eliminating thoughts and beliefs standing in their way of living the life of their dreams.
Having experienced how it feels to be out of alignment with personal power and understanding the path to becoming whole provides
invaluable insights for me to help others to achieve their dreams.
My approach is holistic working with others to achieve balance from the inside-out and the outside-in by aligning mental, emotional, physical and spiritual aspect of what makes us human.
I support clients in any of the 4 areas of life:
1. Career & Finance
2. Family & Relationship
3. Health and Wellness and
4. Self-Development and Spirituality.
If you desire to find more passion, inspiration, and fulfillment in your life experience – I invite you to work with me and together we’ll identify and remove barriers standing in your way.
There is no time like the present.